GAME #1 - Secure day 2

=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-= Securing Your Day 2s =-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-= Sure, she may gladly give her phone number to the "fun guy" she just met, but she isn't likely to ever need to call him back. Why would she? There's always another man around the corner dying to jump in for a shot at being her next entertainer. That’s why you need to create a deeper connection with her. Something beyond just being fun. With a few tools of human psychology on your side, you'll ensure that the two of you will be seeing more of each other in the future. GET HER INVESTED IN YOU People place a high value on things that they have to work for. When a woman is attracted to you, don't get too excited too fast. Her interest level and looks alone should never be enough. Once you have her attracted, this is your chance to find out exactly who she really is. Dig deep, find out what fascinates her, what motivates her, etc. These are the things that should win you over. Ask interesting chains of questions that will guide her into expressing exactly what it is that makes her special. Discover things about her that you admire and respect. Women frequently ask themselves, "Why did he like me?" You want to be sure that when she thinks back to her meeting with you, the answer to this question will be clear. Now, when it comes time for her to decide if she'll answer your call or not, your chances of getting through will be increased 10 fold. Why? Because you didn't just give her your admiration for nothing. You made her earn it. So, it's critical to establish that deeper connection, but even getting her invested is in no way a guarantee. She also has to have some reason to act on her investment. For the best results be sure to master the art of... SEEDING - STEP 1 Step one is added in before you "go deep" and get her invested: Think of something really fun and exciting that you're going to be doing soon. This can be anything from eating at a great restaurant with some of your friends, to going to see one of the hottest comedy shows in town. Picking something renewable that you can use over and over again like the above examples is useful so that you don't have to start fresh each time. Mention your plans to the girl and talk them up as best you can. Make it sound like the greatest, most exciting thing anybody would possibly be doing. For example, if you're talking about eating at the restaurant: Make her salivate at your description of the food. Hype the service. Describe in detail the decor. Make everything sound as awesome as you possibly can. Then comes the most important part. You don't invite her. Simply drop the subject and move on to the next topic without blinking an eye. SEEDING - STEP 2 Step two is done AFTER you "go deep" and have gotten her invested. Now that she feels that connection with you, and has earned the right to enjoy your company, it makes sense for you to invite her. Spontaneously realize that you should ask her along by saying something like: "Wow, you're super cool. Hanging out with you has been a blast...you know what? You should totally come with us this weekend when we go to [insert your fun event here]." The combination of how great you made the event sound and the fact that she has earned it (again people place higher value on things they have earned) will cause her to jump at the chance to join you. Now, the two of you will not only be exchanging numbers but you'll have a very specific reason to do so, along with plans for the next time you get together. By combining all these tricks together, you're sure to see a lot more of those phone numbers convert into dates and meet ups. See you in the field, The Sneak