PUA - OPENER COMPILATION

• Tu crois au coup de foudre ou il faut que je te baratines pendant une demi-heure
• Tu veux pas un petit bebe metis, un nom exotique
• Tu veux pas qu'on se fasse du bien - Je prendrai soin de toi comme une cuisse de poulet.
• - A club, nightlife in general, is a fiction. One that relies solely on four ingredients: music…and by music I mean bass, darkness, the use and abuse of antidepressants… that’s the glass right in front of you and… lust.
• - Now, remember. It’s a fiction. When you turn the light back on, you turn off the music and the effects of alcohol wear off, you also lose the tension that make people dance so close to each other. It doesn’t last forever. Life doesn’t last forever. That’s why I say: get your ass off that thing, walk back upstairs and dance! (Là, je me surprends moi-même. Ma diatribe allait quelque part!)
  
• - Now, remember. It’s a fiction. When you turn the light back on, you turn off the music and the effects of alcohol wear off, you also lose the tension that make people dance so close to each other. It doesn’t last forever. But when the time is right and you take chances, lust lingers loooooong after you leave the club.
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  - Clap ! clap ! clap ! Does this always work with girls?
  - You tell me…If I see you up there shaking your body like you’re trying to lose a couple of pounds then I will think that it did work.
  - Hey! I don’t need to lose a couple of pounds.
  - I didn’t say you needed to, I said “ ‘like’ you’re trying to lose a couple of pounds”
• "Salut, je t'ai vue et... je me suis dit que... j'avais envie de faire ta connaissance...".
  
  L'approche directe reste à plus d'un titre une forme d'approche très prisée.
  
  J'ai contribué à rendre très populaire un "Opener" pour Approche Directe très populaire dans le monde de la séduction : le "Salut j'ai eu envie de faire ta connaissance".
  
  En en reparlant récemment, je me suis rendu compte que la version que mon interlocuteur utilisait étaient loin de la version particulièrement puissante que j'avais mise au point :
  "Salut, je t'ai vue et... je me suis dit que... j'avais envie de faire ta connaissance...".
  
  Notez bien l'enchainement : on continue directement après le Salut, sans attendre de réponse au "Salut" (qui joue le rôle technique d'Intruder, le mot qui vise à requérir l'attention des personnes abordées, même si je vous recommande de ne pas le subcommuniquer comme tel : lorsque vous abordez, rappelez-vous que c'est naturel, et que vous allez apporter quelque chose aux personnes que vous abordez).
  
  Ensuite, notez que les trois prédicats évoquent tour à tour les différents sens (visuel, auditif, kinesthésique).
  Cela a l'effet d'une légère mise en transe sur l'inconscient.
  Les temps de pause indiqués par les points de suspension visent à en augmenter l'impact.
  Accessoirement, l'inconscient en face relèvera l'utilisation du sens qu'il préfère (Visuel, Auditif ou Kinesthésique) et cela va créer du Rapport (aisance dans la relation) avec la personne.
  
  Pour l'inconscient de la personne abordée, le "j'avais envie" est interprété *aussi* de manière littérale, ce qui pousse instinctivement la personne en termes d'attraction (comme si ce n'était plus le cas).
  
  
  
  Les conseils habituels sont toujours valides : pas d'approche de dos, inflexion émotionnelle positive, etc.
  
  Enjoy

 


Eclipse has already given you guys one of the worlds best and most field tested openers. Just say hi and introduce yourself.

If you are afraid of approaching someone, they will be afraid of you approaching them (they will feel creeped out and avoid you).

To get good results when approaching it doesn't really matter what you say to a girl - what matters is how you say it. By that I mean your body language, your tone of voice, your general appearance (not so much whether you are fat/skinny, tall or short but if you are clean and well groomed).

Working on improving those things will net good results. Body Language by Barbar and Allan Pease is a good place to start.

A simple way to appear confident when approaching someone is to imagine they are your best friend. You would not hesitate about walking up to your best friend in a club and saying "Hey, hows it going?" in a warm, friendly and confident manner.

If you appear confident they will react positively. They will react react confidently, not afraid to talk to you.

Remember as a kid, some older people would instantly make you feel happy when you met them. They just seemed nice - cool and friendly. While other people just scared you and you wanted to run back to your mom and hide behind her skirt. That is almost exactly how girls feel in the club (or anywhere for that matter).

You have to realize it does not matter what you say.


Having said that, here are a few openers for you:

Situational openers:
The best situational openers are about the present situation.
I'll introduce myself and shake hands with a girl, if she has a bad handshake (or just if I want to bust on her), "oh you have the worst shake ever, here I'll show you how its done" give her a lesson how to do it properly. Then show her the fist bump and all the old school shakes. It works for that situation.
If the girl has some funky weird shoes or necklace, call her on it. "Wow what an interesting pair of shoes." "Oh thanks" "Where did you get them? I'm sure my crazy cross dressing friend would love a pair."


Opinion openers:
Stock intros - "Hey guys, I need your help for a second/I need you to settle a bet quick..."
Who is more messed up - Britney or Lindsey?
Who lies more - guys or girls?
Whats cuter - little kittens or little puppies?
What would you rather be - Playboy Bunny or Olympic Gold Medalist?
Whats better - coke/pepsi, vodka/tequila, Macdonalds/Subway, Saturdays/Sundays, summer/winter, beach/mountains, snow/surf.
This girl asked me today if I wear boxers or briefs - does it really matter?
Would I look better with a mohawk or a mullet? Or should I combine the best of the two, get a mullhawk. Sharp on top and party out the back.

Opinion/Situational games:
Fuck/Mary/Kill or Do/Mary/Dump - everyone should no this.
Pick the weird guy. I'm pretty sure I created this one recently, I don't think I have read it before. I was at a low key club and met a girl while getting drinks. There was a really creepy guy hitting on her and after he left I said "wow, it must be a full moon this place is full of creepy guys" She laughed and agreed. I then began pointing out a few... "check out the guy hiding in the corner with hie beer, he looks disturbed. Ohhh how about that one near the podium staring at the blond dancing away - aww i think he is in love" She loved it and she kept going. We were laughing, almost in tears it was so funny. She ran out of creepy guys and eventually I said, in the creepiest voice i could muster, "What about meee?" She thought about it for a moment... "No, your different. Your cool, I really like you." BAM, I was in. Could not get blown out if I tried.

Others:
F&%$ me if I am wrong but is your name Pocahontas?
F&%$ me if I am wrong but do you want to f&%$ me?
Why don't they make mouse flavored cat food?
If a person with split personality disorder talks about committing suicide does that mean the other personalities are being held hostage?
Are you my long lost twin?
Did you have an imaginary friend when you were little?
What was your favorite cartoon as a kid?